When life sends you a P.S.
How an aerogramme from more than 50 years ago filled in a narrative gap in my grandfather’s story.
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8 must-have family history tools for better storytelling
Discover 8 essential tools to uncover, verify & bring your family history to life—featuring AI, archives & a love story that crossed the world!
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Welcome to 2025: A Big Year for One Ancestor at a Time
It’s the start of a new year, and I couldn’t be more excited for what’s ahead. If you’ve been following One Ancestor at a Time, you know it’s all about uncovering the stories of the past to enrich our lives today. But there’s something I haven’t told you—until now. Some of you may have already
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You’ll never believe how far he went for love
From London’s shadows to New Zealand’s shores—uncover my great-grandparents’ daring journey for love and survival.
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The Man Who Never Gave Up
At just 17, he went from the streets of England to the backblocks of New Zealand. From farming to insurance sales, he failed at almost everything he tried. But then, his persistence paid off. Find out how my grandfather created a new life and a new family, on the other side of the world.
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In search of The Brethren
Brethren – this old-fashioned word may conjure up images of secretive sects, but the Open Brethren is the Christian denomination that played a huge part of my family’s history for five generations. Find out just who they were…
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The nicest man you could ever hope to meet
My grandfather, Brian Rockel, was more than family—he was a master of bringing joy to everyone around him. Join me as I share the story of a man who lived with kindness and humor, and how his warmth shaped my life.
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Meet my parents
History feels distant until it’s family. Graeme and Annette, my parents, shaped the man I am today in ways I’m only now beginning to understand. Join me as I honor their lives, their lessons, and the legacy that lives on.
The Silent Wisdom of Trees
West Auckland is more than home; it’s my teacher, my roots, and yes, even an ‘ancestor.’ From towering kauri trees to windswept coasts, this land has shaped my story. Let’s walk these paths together and discover the lessons hidden in every tree and shoreline.
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How I learned my Pepeha
In this post, I share my journey in creating a pepeha—a Māori introduction format to build connections—tailored respectfully as a non-Māori. With guidance from experts, I acknowledge my heritage, local iwi, and the cultural connections my pepeha represents.
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